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Bedtime stories are one of the most powerful tools parents have for teaching kindness — but only if you choose the right ones. The books that actually work aren’t the ones with a character saying “be kind” on every page. They’re the ones with a character who faces a hard choice and chooses to help anyway. “Kitty and Dino Help Gordon the Rooster” is one of those books. Gordon isn’t a perfect character. He’s sometimes grumpy, sometimes unsure, and not always the first to volunteer. But when someone needs him, he shows up. That’s the lesson — not kindness as a rule, but kindness as a reflex. Here’s how to use bedtime stories to teach your child what kindness actually looks like.

There’s a version of teaching kindness that goes like this: you tell your child to be kind, you praise them when they are, and you correct them when they’re not. That’s not wrong. But it’s incomplete.

Kindness, the kind that sticks, isn’t a rule. It’s a reflex. It’s the thing that happens automatically when you see someone hurting and something inside you says: I should help.

That reflex doesn’t develop from being told to be kind. It develops from stories.

Why Stories Work Better Than Lectures

When you tell a 4-year-old to be kind, what they’re hearing is: “Do this thing I said.” When you read them a story about Gordon the Rooster — a rooster who notices a friend in trouble, who doesn’t know if he can help but tries anyway — what they’re experiencing is: “This is what kind looks like when it’s not easy.”

Kids learn through narrative. Their brains are wired for it. A story about a character making a hard choice creates an emotional connection that a lecture simply can’t. They don’t just understand kindness intellectually. They feel it.

This is why books work where bribes and threats eventually fail. A bribe says: do this and you’ll get something. A story says: this is who you become when you care about someone. One is transactional. The other is transformative.

What Makes a Bedtime Story Actually Teach Kindness

Not all children’s books about kindness are created equal. Here’s what to look for:

  • A character who chooses kindness under pressure. Gordon doesn’t help because it’s easy. He helps because he can’t walk away. That’s the version of kindness that sticks — the kind that costs something.
  • An opportunity to talk about the hard part. After reading about Gordon, ask your child: “Do you think it was hard for Gordon to stop and help? Why or why not?” That conversation is where the real learning happens.
  • A story that doesn’t preach. The books that work best are the ones that show kindness without a narrator telling the reader what to think. “Kitty and Dino Help Gordon the Rooster” lets Gordon’s choices speak for themselves.

Three Conversations to Have After Reading Gordon

The book is the start. The conversation is where the teaching happens. Here are three prompts that work well with kids ages 3 to 8:

  • “Why do you think Gordon stopped to help?” This gets past the surface answer (“because he was nice”) and into the real motivation. You might hear something like: “Because he looked sad” or “Because nobody else was helping.” Either way, your child is reasoning through kindness, not just repeating it.
  • “Has there ever been a time when you wanted to help someone but weren’t sure if you should?” This normalizes the hesitation that comes before kindness. It tells your child that Gordon’s uncertainty is normal — and that choosing to help anyway is what matters.
  • “What would have happened if Gordon hadn’t stopped?” This helps kids understand the consequences of inaction — not to guilt them, but to show them that kindness has weight. The choice to help is also the choice not to look away.

The Father-in-Law Moment

I’ll tell you a quick story — the one behind this book.

My father-in-law found a bird one day. It was hurt, alone, not doing well. Most people would have kept walking. He didn’t. He stopped, picked the bird up, and took care of it until it was strong enough to be on its own again.

He didn’t do it for a lesson. He didn’t do it because anyone was watching. He did it because he saw something that needed help and he helped it.

That moment became Gordon.

I wanted my son to grow up knowing that kindness isn’t a performance. It’s a reflex — something you build by practicing it in small moments until it becomes part of who you are. The book is my way of handing that reflex to him in a story he can carry with him.

Building a Kindness Reflex Through Stories

Here’s what I want for my son, and what I think most parents want: I want him to be the kind of person who sees someone struggling and stops. Not because he’s been told to, not because he’ll get in trouble if he doesn’t — but because something in him recognizes suffering and responds.

That reflex builds over time. It builds through stories about Gordon and Kitty and Dino. It builds through conversations at bedtime about why a character chose to help. It builds through moments where your child hesitates and then, eventually, chooses kindness anyway.

You’re not raising a kind child by telling them to be kind. You’re raising a kind child by giving them characters worth imitating, conversations worth having, and stories worth remembering.

Key Takeaways

  • Kindness is a reflex, not a rule — and it develops through stories, not lectures
  • The best kindness books show characters choosing to help under pressure, not performing it for an audience
  • Conversations after reading are where the real teaching happens
  • Gordon’s story was inspired by a real act of kindness — and that’s what makes it work

At What Age Should You Start Reading Kindness Stories to Children?

Children as young as 2 can begin absorbing the emotional tone of stories, even if they can’t articulate the themes yet. By ages 3 to 4, most children can follow a simple narrative arc and identify how a character feels. This is the ideal window to start reading books that model kindness — not as a lesson, but as a story about someone making a choice to care. The earlier kindness becomes part of a child’s narrative framework, the more natural it feels as they grow.

How Do Bedtime Stories Impact Emotional Development?

Bedtime stories do more than wind a child down for sleep. They provide a structured opportunity for emotional learning — a safe space to experience feelings through characters before encountering them in real life. When a child hears about Gordon noticing a friend in trouble and choosing to help, they’re building an emotional schema for empathy. Research in social-emotional development consistently shows that children who are read to regularly demonstrate higher emotional intelligence, stronger theory of mind (the ability to understand what others feel), and more prosocial behavior — not because they were taught to be kind, but because they practiced kindness through stories.

How Can I Make Sure My Child Retains the Kindness Lessons From Books?

Retention happens through conversation, not just reading. After finishing “Kitty and Dino Help Gordon the Rooster,” pause and ask your child what they thought about Gordon’s choice. Let them articulate it in their own words. Then, when a real-life moment comes along where kindness is possible — someone crying at the playground, a sibling upset, a pet that needs comfort — gently remind them of Gordon: “Remember how Gordon stopped to help even though it was hard? I wonder if there’s something we can do right now.” That bridge between story and life is where kindness becomes a habit.


Get the Book

“Kitty and Dino Help Gordon the Rooster” is available on Amazon. It’s a bedtime story that opens the door to real conversations about kindness, gives your child a character worth imitating, and reminds both of you that the small moments of caring are the ones that last.

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Related: The Real Story Behind Gordon the Rooster — how a father’s act of kindness became a beloved bedtime story

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Every great children’s book has a real moment behind it — a spark that turned into a story a parent needed to tell. For “Kitty and Dino Help Gordon the Rooster,” that moment came when a father-in-law found a rooster in trouble and chose to help. That act of kindness became the foundation for a book about what it means to be brave enough to care.

My father-in-law is not the sentimental type. He grew up on a farm, has seen animals born and die, and has never once, in my presence, said anything soft about any of them.

So when he told me the story of how he found Gordon, I listened.

Gordon was in bad shape. A bird that had wandered onto the property — alone, injured, not quite right. Most people in that situation would have kept walking. My father-in-law didn’t. He picked the bird up, cleaned it up, gave it a warm place to rest, and kept an eye on it until it was strong enough to stand on its own again.

That was it. That was the whole story — a man saw something that needed help, and he helped it.

The Moment That Became a Book

A few weeks after that, I was looking for a way to explain kindness to my son. Not the abstract version — not “be nice” or “share your toys.” The real version. The kind where you see someone struggling and you stop, even when it’s inconvenient, even when it’s not your problem, even when you don’t know if it’ll even work out.

I thought about Gordon.

Not the original Gordon — the real bird my father-in-law had found. The Gordon that became the character in our book: a rooster who is gentle when he could be loud, who notices when someone is hurting, and who chooses kindness even when it’s easier not to.

That’s the story I wanted to tell. Not a lecture. A moment.

What Makes a Story Actually Teach Kindness

There are a lot of children’s books about kindness. Most of them tell kids to be kind. Very few show them what it looks like in real life — the part where it’s hard, where you have to choose it, where you’re not sure it’ll make a difference.

“Kitty and Dino Help Gordon the Rooster” does something different. Gordon isn’t perfect. He gets frustrated. He doesn’t always know what to do. But when it matters most, he shows up. He notices. He helps. Not because someone told him to, but because that’s who he is.

For kids ages 3 to 8, that’s the most powerful kind of teaching. It doesn’t feel like instruction. It feels like a story about a character they like — one who makes a choice they’d want to make too.

Here are three things that make this book work as a kindness teaching tool:

  • Gordon shows kindness as a character trait, not a rule. He doesn’t help because someone made him. He helps because something in him sees suffering and responds. That’s the version of kindness kids can actually internalize — not “I should be kind” but “I am the kind of person who helps.”
  • The kindness is specific and consequential. Gordon doesn’t just say something nice. He does something. He acts. And what he does matters — to the character he’s helping, and to the story. Kids see that kindness isn’t just feeling something; it’s doing something.
  • Gordon is relatable first. Before Gordon is kind, he’s a character kids recognize — scared, sometimes unsure, trying to figure out the right thing. That makes his kindness feel earned, not performed. It makes it feel possible for any kid who’s ever hesitated before doing the right thing.

A Book That Started With a Real Rescue

Here’s what I love most about this book: it began with a real act of kindness. Not a hypothetical. Not a made-up scenario. My father-in-law saw a bird that needed help, and he helped it.

That kind of thing stays with you. It becomes part of how you think about what kind of person you want to be — and, eventually, what kind of stories you want to tell your kids.

“Kitty and Dino Help Gordon the Rooster” is my attempt to pass that moment along. To give my son a story about what kindness looks like when it’s not easy — when it’s just a choice someone makes because it’s the right thing to do.

My father-in-law will probably never read this post. But if he does: thank you. For stopping. For helping. For showing me what courage looks like when it wears flannel instead of a cape.

Key Takeaways

  • Real-life acts of kindness — even small ones — become the stories that teach kids most
  • Children learn kindness best from characters who feel relatable and flawed before they’re brave
  • Books that show kindness as a character trait, not a rule, are more likely to stick
  • A book about a rescued rooster became a story about choosing to care

Why Is Kindness Important in Children’s Books?

Kindness in children’s books matters because it gives kids a framework for how to treat others before they’ve developed the social experience to figure it out on their own. When a child hears about Gordon noticing someone hurting and choosing to help, that child is building an internal model for empathy — the habit of noticing, caring, and acting. Studies on social-emotional learning show that children who regularly encounter kindness modeled in stories are more likely to exhibit prosocial behavior themselves, not because they’re trying to please adults, but because they’ve internalized what kindness looks like in practice.

How Do You Teach a Child to Be Kind?

Start with stories, not lectures. Children ages 3 to 8 respond far better to narratives about characters making kind choices than to abstract instructions like “be kind.” When you read “Kitty and Dino Help Gordon the Rooster,” pause and ask: “Why do you think Gordon stopped to help?” Let your child articulate the answer in their own words. That process — noticing, thinking, responding — is the foundation of kindness. You don’t need to tell them what to do. You need to give them characters worth imitating.

What Makes a Good Bedtime Story About Kindness?

A good bedtime story about kindness doesn’t lecture. It shows. The best ones feature a character who faces a choice — to help or walk away — and chooses to help, not because it’s easy, but because it’s right. Gordon the Rooster fits that description: he’s not fearless, he’s not perfect, but when someone needs him, he shows up. That kind of story gives kids something to carry with them — not a lesson, but a feeling of what it means to be the kind of person who cares.


Get the Book

“Kitty and Dino Help Gordon the Rooster” is available on Amazon. It’s one of those books that works as a bedtime story, opens a real conversation about kindness, and reminds both parents and kids that the small moments of caring are the ones that matter most.

Buy on Amazon — B0FXTLNWG6


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Making Friends Is a Learned Skill

We tend to treat social skills like they’re optional — something that either comes naturally or doesn’t. But making friends is actually a skill, and like any skill, it can be taught, practiced, and improved.

I learned this the hard way with my own son. When he was 4, he didn’t want to go to swimming class. Not because he couldn’t swim, but because something about the class made him uncomfortable — enough that he asked us to write a note to the teacher asking to be left alone.

Looking back, I think part of what he was feeling was a kind of social uncertainty. He didn’t know how to navigate the class, didn’t feel like he fit in, and didn’t have the tools to change that on his own.

What helped? Books. Specifically, stories about characters who were in the same position — lonely, unsure, trying to figure out how to belong.

How Children’s Books Model Friendship Behaviors

Kids learn by watching and by stories. When they hear about Penny the Penguin — a penguin who feels completely alone on a snowy mountain, who has forgotten what it’s like to play with friends — they recognize something. They might not have the words for it yet, but they feel it.

The magic of “Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin” isn’t in the snowboarding tricks or the magical setting. It’s in what Kitty and Dino do: they see someone who’s hurting, they don’t judge her for being grumpy or distant, and they show up anyway. They practice with her. They wait for her. They cheer when she lands her trick.

That’s what friendship looks like to a 4-year-old. Not complicated adult social dynamics — just showing up, being patient, and caring about someone even when they’re having a hard time.

Practical Ways to Use Stories to Build Social Skills

Reading books about friendship is a start. But you can go further. Here are three ways parents use picture books to help kids develop social skills:

  • Role-play the story. After reading about Kitty and Dino helping Penny, you can say: “What if we played that? You be Penny and I’ll be Kitty.” Playing out the story helps kids practice the behaviors — reaching out, being patient, encouraging — in a low-pressure way.
  • Talk about the character’s feelings. Ask your child: “How do you think Penny felt when she was alone on the mountain?” This builds emotional vocabulary and helps kids recognize feelings in themselves and others — a foundational social skill.
  • Connect the story to real situations. If your child is starting at a new school or daycare, frame it around a story: “Remember how Penny was nervous about the triple loop? But she tried anyway because her friends were there. What do you think will help you feel better on your first day?”

Why Shy Kids Especially Benefit From Friendship Stories

Shy children often know exactly what they should do socially — they want to join in, they want to play, they want to make friends — but something holds them back. Books give them a framework. They show that even characters who feel scared or unsure can take small steps toward connection.

Penny doesn’t wake up one day ready to tackle the triple loop. She practices. She falls. She gets frustrated. But she keeps going, partly because she has friends who believe in her even when she doesn’t believe in herself.

For shy kids, that’s a powerful message. You don’t have to be fearless to make friends. You just have to be willing to try, one small step at a time.

Building Social Confidence Through Stories

I wrote “Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin” because I wanted my son to understand something important: feeling lonely doesn’t last forever, and you don’t have to fix it alone. Sometimes it takes a friend showing up — or a story that helps you see that showing up for yourself is possible too.

About a year after we started reading the book together, something shifted. My son stopped needing to be comforted about swimming class. He told me he could stay underwater without pinching his nose. He wanted to go.

I don’t think it was the book alone. But the book gave him something to hold onto — a story about a character who was scared, who felt alone, and who eventually found her confidence anyway.

Key Takeaways

  • Making friends is a learned skill that parents can actively teach and practice
  • Picture books model friendship behaviors like patience, encouragement, and showing up
  • Shy kids benefit from stories that show small steps toward connection, not dramatic transformations
  • Reading and role-playing friendship stories gives kids the vocabulary and confidence to try in real situations

At What Age Do Children Typically Start Making Friends?

Children begin showing interest in peer relationships around ages 3 to 4, even if the friendships look very different from adult friendships — short bursts of parallel play, temporary alliances, and quick conflicts that resolve just as fast. By age 5 or 6, most children have a clearer sense of who their friends are and start developing the social skills needed to maintain those relationships, like sharing, taking turns, and resolving disagreements. Kids who struggle with these skills at this age often benefit from explicit teaching through stories and guided play.

What Can I Do if My Child Is Too Shy to Make Friends?

Don’t force it — but do create opportunities. Sign your child up for structured activities where interaction happens naturally, like a small class or a playdate with one child at a time rather than a large group. Practice at home: read books about friendship, role-play different social situations, and name the feelings your child might be experiencing. The goal isn’t to change who your child is — it’s to build their confidence at their own pace, one small step at a time, the same way Penny the Penguin learned her snowboarding trick.

How Do Picture Books Help With Social-Emotional Development?

Picture books give children a safe way to experience social situations they’re not yet in — or that they’re afraid of. When a child hears about Penny feeling lonely and then watching her slowly rebuild her confidence with help from friends, that child is building an emotional framework for their own experiences. Studies on social-emotional learning consistently show that children who can name and understand their emotions have an easier time navigating social situations, and picture books are one of the most accessible tools parents have for building that emotional vocabulary.

Get the Book

“Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin” is available on Amazon. It’s one of those books that works for bedtime, for difficult days, and for the moments when your child needs to hear that showing up — even when you’re scared — is what matters most.

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The Problem With “Just Try Harder”

My 4-year-old son had a swimming class he dreaded. Every other week: tears, a note asking the teacher to go easy on him, and a long conversation about why he didn’t want to go back. The issue was simple — water was getting into his nose, and he hated it.

What I learned from that experience became the reason I wrote “Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin.” Sometimes kids need more than a conversation. They need a story.

When our son said he didn’t want to go to swimming class, my first instinct was to tell him everyone has to learn, that it gets easier, that he should just try harder. But what he actually needed was a way to see himself succeeding before he tried.

That’s what great children’s books do. They let kids experience a challenge from a safe distance. They show a character facing something scary, working through it step by step, and coming out the other side — not because someone told them to, but because they found their own reason to try.

Penny the Penguin is that story for a lot of kids. She’s a penguin who can’t figure out her snowboarding trick, who feels alone on a mountain, and whose confidence crumbles after a bad fall. But she doesn’t give up. With the help of Kitty and Dino, she slowly rebuilds — one small jump at a time.

How Stories Teach Kids to Embrace Uniqueness

I wrote Penny for my son during a hard stretch. He’d been avoiding something that scared him, and I realized I couldn’t just lecture him into trying. What changed everything was reading about Penny — a penguin who was afraid, who cried, who felt like she didn’t belong — and watching her find her way back to herself.

Kids don’t need perfection in their bedtime stories. They need characters who feel real. They need to see that being scared is normal, that setbacks happen, and that trying again is something to be proud of, not something to be ashamed of.

Here are three things bedtime stories about belonging teach kids:

  • Feeling different is temporary. Most stories about characters who feel left out end with them finding their place. That pattern matters. It tells kids: this feeling you’re having right now? It won’t last forever.
  • Asking for help is a strength. Penny doesn’t master the triple loop on her own. She practices with Kitty’s wind to guide her and Dino’s healing magic to catch her when she falls. Needing friends isn’t weakness — it’s how the world works.
  • Small steps lead to big changes. Penny doesn’t wake up cured. She practices, falls, tries again, and eventually lands the trick she’s been chasing. That patience — the willingness to keep showing up — is one of the most important things any child can learn.

A Story Written By a Dad Who Needed It Too

“Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin” wasn’t written by a professional children’s author. It was written by a father who wanted to help his own son understand something important: being scared of something doesn’t mean you can’t do it.

About a year after we first read the book together, my son told me something while I was bathing him. He said he could now stay underwater without holding his nose. Swimming had become his favorite class.

I didn’t fix him. The book didn’t fix him. But having a story that made him feel understood — that let him see fear as something normal and courage as something you build — gave him permission to try on his own terms.

Key Takeaways

  • Bedtime stories help kids process fear and feelings of not fitting in from a safe distance
  • Characters who struggle and recover teach children that setbacks are part of growth
  • Stories like Penny model asking for help, practicing patiently, and celebrating small wins
  • A father wrote this book to help his own son — and it worked

Why Do Some Children Feel Like They Don’t Fit In?

Children feel like they don’t fit in for lots of reasons — they might be learning something new that feels hard, they might look or act differently than their peers, or they might simply be going through a phase of heightened self-awareness. During ages 3 to 8, kids are constantly comparing themselves to others, which makes feelings of being an outsider especially common. Books that show relatable characters working through these feelings give kids the vocabulary to express what they’re experiencing and the hope that fitting in isn’t the goal — belonging is.

How Can Parents Help Children Who Feel Left Out?

The most effective thing parents can do is acknowledge the feeling without trying to immediately fix it. Instead of saying “you have nothing to feel left out about,” try “I can see you’re having a hard time. That must feel frustrating.” Then offer a story or character who has been through something similar — which is exactly what books like Penny the Penguin are designed to do. Seeing a character work through feelings of loneliness or inadequacy helps children understand they’re not alone and that things can get better.

What Are the Best Picture Books About Belonging and Uniqueness?

The best picture books about belonging feature characters who feel genuinely different — not in a token way, but in a way that affects how they move through the world. “Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin” is one example: Penny feels like she doesn’t belong because she can’t land her snowboarding trick, and that feeling spreads to everything else until she forgets who she is. Books that show characters who feel different gradually finding confidence through their own effort (not a magic wand or an adult’s reassurance) tend to resonate most with children ages 3 to 8.

Get the Book

“Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin” is available on Amazon. It’s one of those books that works as a bedtime story, a tool for talking about feelings, and a quiet reminder that being different is something to be proud of — not something to hide.

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Key Takeaways

Q: What’s the best way to teach empathy to a 4-year-old?
A: Bedtime stories that show characters helping others — like Gordon the Rooster

Q: How do you explain “respecting all life” to a child?
A: Through magical stories where even vegetables deserve kindness

Q: Can a rooster teach my child about compassion?
A: Yes — Gordon shows kids that every creature, no matter how small, deserves care

The fastest way to teach empathy to young children is through stories where characters face real problems and choose kindness. That’s exactly why I wrote Gordon the Rooster — a bedtime story about a rescued rooster whose magical garden teaches children that every life matters.

Why Bedtime Stories Work for Teaching Empathy

Children ages 3-8 learn best through narrative. They don’t absorb abstract concepts like “be kind” — they absorb moments. When they hear about Gordon the Rooster being rescued, they feel it. The magical garden where vegetables walk and play makes the lesson memorable, not preachy.

Research backs this up. A study in the Journal of Children and Media found that kids who regularly hear storybooks with prosocial themes show more empathetic behavior in real life. The key is consistency — a nightly story compounds over months.

Gordon the Rooster works because it’s not a lecture. It’s a world. Kitty and Dino don’t tell Gordon to be brave — they show him through action. And that’s what sticks with a four-year-old.

What Age Should You Start Teaching Kindness?

Most child development experts suggest starting empathy education around age 3. That’s when children begin understanding that other people have feelings separate from their own. Bedtime stories are perfect for this because they create a calm, connected moment.

With Gordon the Rooster, even toddlers absorb the basics: Gordon was scared, his friends helped him, he felt safe. By age 5 or 6, kids pick up the deeper thread — that Gordon was rescued from danger, and that every life has value.

The beauty of this book is it grows with your child. A 3-year-old remembers the talking carrots. A 6-year-old understands why Gordon needed rescuing in the first place.

How Can Parents Extend the Lesson Beyond the Book?

After reading, ask simple questions: “How do you think Gordon felt when he was scared?” or “What would you do if you saw someone lonely at the park?” These conversations turn storytime into empathy practice.

You can also point out real moments during the day — “That was kind, how you shared your snack.” Connecting the book’s themes to actual behavior reinforces the lesson.

And if you have a backyard or a garden, plant something together. Gordon’s story is rooted in the earth. Tending to a plant alongside your child gives the empathy lesson a physical reality to touch and care for.

If you want to try the book, you can find Gordon the Rooster on Amazon here. It’s part of the Magical Tales of Kitty & Dino series.

You can also explore more stories at kittyanddino.com — where Kitty, Dino, and their friends go on adventures that teach without preaching.


TL;DR

  • Bedtime stories are the #1 tool for teaching empathy to ages 3-7
  • Gordon the Rooster uses magical realism to make the lesson stick without being preachy
  • The real backstory (a rescued rooster) makes it authentic and memorable
  • The book grows with your child — from simple story to deeper meaning

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Key Takeaways

Q: Is Gordon the Rooster based on a true story?
A: Yes — the author’s father-in-law rescued a real rooster from being killed

Q: Why did the author write this book?
A: To teach his son that every life deserves respect and freedom

Q: What makes Gordon’s story different from other children’s books?
A: It’s rooted in a real act of compassion — that authenticity shines through every page

Gordon the Rooster isn’t just a magical story about walking vegetables — it’s based on a real rescue. When my father-in-law brought home a rooster that was about to be killed, my son asked why. That conversation became a bedtime tradition, and eventually, this book.

What Happened to the Real Rooster?

The real Gordon was a living rooster — red feathers, golden comb, the whole thing. He was headed for slaughter when my father-in-law stepped in. No grand plan, no事先 thinking about a children’s book. Just a man who saw a creature about to die and decided he wouldn’t allow it.

My son, barely four at the time, asked the question every parent hopes their child will ask: “Why was he scared?” From that question, a bedtime story was born. First it was just us talking at night. Then I started writing it down. The magical garden came from wanting to show my son how beautiful a safe place can be.

Gordon lived out his days in my father-in-law’s care — not a farm sanctuary, just a backyard with space to roam. He wasn’t a character yet. He was a rooster who got lucky.

How Do You Explain “Rescued from Being Killed” to a Child?

Honestly? You let the book do it. I didn’t sit my son down and explain the meat industry. I told him Gordon was scared, and then his grandpa made him safe. Simple. True.

Children understand fear. They understand safety. They don’t need the full context to feel the emotional core of the story. Gordon was in danger. Gordon is now safe. Kitty and Dino helped make that safety feel like home.

That’s the whole point. You don’t have to explain everything. You just have to plant the seed — kindness matters, every life has value, the people who love you will keep you safe. The rest grows as they do.

Why Are Origin Stories Important in Children’s Books?

Origin stories give books weight. When a child knows a story is real — or based on something real — they engage with it differently. It’s not just a fairy tale. It’s a memory. Someone’s actual life inspired these pages.

Gordon the Rooster carries that weight. Your child isn’t just hearing about a rooster; they’re hearing about a moment when a family chose compassion. That’s the kind of story that sticks.

And in a market flooded with generic “be nice to animals” books, an origin story stands out. It has texture. It has heart. It has the particular, irreplaceable feeling of a dad telling his kid a story about something that actually happened.

You can read more about the Kitty & Dino series at kittyanddino.com, or grab the book on Amazon here.

If you’re interested in the broader series, Penny the Penguin and other Kitty & Dino adventures are also available on Amazon.


TL;DR

  • Gordon is based on a real rescued rooster — not a fictional character
  • The book teaches children that every life matters through a true act of compassion
  • The magical garden makes the lesson accessible and memorable for ages 3-8
  • Origin stories resonate more than generic tales — they’re rooted in real human moments

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Teaching Kids to Be Brave: How Stories Help Children Face Fear

Every parent has heard their child say it: “I can’t. I’m scared.” The instinct is to reassure — you’ll be fine, there’s nothing to be afraid of, just try. But these phrases, however well-intentioned, often miss what children actually need.

Real bravery isn’t the absence of fear. It’s action in the presence of fear. And this is a difficult concept to explain to a four-year-old standing at the edge of a pool or staring at a dark bedroom. That’s where stories become essential. They show children what courage looks like in a form they can understand and remember.

Why Telling Kids to “Be Brave” Rarely Works

When adults tell children to be brave, children often hear a command to stop feeling afraid. This creates a bind: they’re scared, and now they’re also failing at not being scared. The shame compounds the fear.

Stories offer a different path. They let children watch someone else be scared — really scared, not pretend-scared — and then see what happens next. The emotional processing happens vicariously. The child feels Penny’s fear without being overwhelmed by it. They see her find her way through, and they internalize the possibility that they could too.

This is why Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin matters. Penny doesn’t just face a challenge. She crashes spectacularly, cries frozen tears, and refuses to try again. Her fear is specific and believable. When she eventually returns to the Triple Loop, children understand exactly what cost her courage exacted.

The Bravery Arc Children Need to See

Effective courage stories follow a pattern that matches how bravery actually develops:

The attempt. The character tries something difficult. For Penny, it’s the Triple Loop — three spins in the air on her snowboard. She has practiced. She is ready. She goes for it.

The failure. This is crucial. Stories that skip the failure teach children that success comes easily to brave people. Real bravery stories show the crash, the embarrassment, the pain of not succeeding. Penny lands hard. Her snow magic spirals out of control. She is humiliated and hurt.

The withdrawal. After failure, the character pulls back. Penny decides she will never snowboard again. This is not weakness. This is the normal, protective response to pain. Children need to see that wanting to quit is part of the process.

The friendship. Here’s where the story teaches its real lesson. Kitty and Dino don’t lecture Penny. They don’t tell her she’s being silly. They stay nearby. They show up every day. They build a practice space where falling doesn’t hurt. They make it safe to try again.

The gradual return. Penny doesn’t suddenly decide she’s fearless. She practices small jumps first. Then medium ones. Her confidence rebuilds incrementally, grounded in actual experience. When she finally attempts the Triple Loop again, she’s earned her courage.

This arc — attempt, fail, withdraw, find support, practice, try again — is what children need to internalize. It’s the template for real courage in real life.

What Parents Can Do After Reading

The story opens the door. The conversation walks through it. After reading Penny’s adventure, try these questions:

“What was Penny most afraid of after she crashed?” This helps children identify specific fears rather than vague anxiety. Penny wasn’t just scared. She was scared of failing again, of looking foolish, of getting hurt.

“Why did Kitty and Dino help instead of telling Penny to stop being scared?” This reinforces the lesson that courage comes from support, not pressure. It also models how children might respond to friends who are struggling.

“What was the smallest jump Penny practiced?” This emphasizes the importance of starting small. Courage isn’t about attempting the hardest thing immediately. It’s about gradual, supported growth.

“Have you ever been scared to try something again?” The direct invitation to connect the story to their own experience. Some children will have an immediate example. Others will need time. Both responses are fine.

Bravery in the Real World

The bravery children practice through stories translates to everyday challenges:

Learning to ride a bike. The falls are real. The fear of falling again is legitimate. The parent who stays nearby, who makes it safe to try again, is playing the Kitty role.

Starting school. New environments are overwhelming. The child who remembers Penny’s gradual return may feel more willing to try a little more each day.

Speaking in front of others. Performance anxiety is common. The child who has seen Penny survive her crash understands that embarrassment is survivable.

Making new friends. Rejection stings. The child who has internalized the bravery arc knows that withdrawal is normal, but so is trying again when the time is right.

In each case, the story provides a reference point. “Remember how Penny practiced small jumps first?” becomes a phrase children can use to coach themselves through difficulty.

Frequently Asked Questions

At what age do children understand the concept of bravery?

Children begin developing a basic understanding of courage around age 3, but the concept becomes more fully grasped between ages 4 and 7. This is exactly why picture books like Penny the Penguin — designed for ages 3-8 — are so effective. They meet children where they are developmentally.

Should parents push children to face their fears?

Gentle encouragement works better than pressure. The Kitty-and-Dino model — staying nearby, making it safe to try, celebrating small progress — builds lasting confidence. Pushing too hard can reinforce avoidance. The goal is for children to feel supported, not coerced.

How do I respond when my child says “I’m scared”?

Validate first: “I hear that you’re scared. Tell me more about what feels scary.” This acknowledges the feeling without amplifying it. Then problem-solve together: “What would make this feel safer?” This engages the child’s thinking brain and gives them agency.

Can reading about brave characters actually make children braver?

Research suggests yes. Children who engage with stories about characters overcoming challenges show increased willingness to attempt difficult tasks themselves. The effect is strongest when parents discuss the story afterward and help children connect it to their own lives.

What if my child fixates on the crash and gets more scared?

This is normal. Some children need to process the scary parts multiple times before they can absorb the resolution. Let them lead. If they want to discuss Penny’s crash repeatedly, that’s how they’re working through their own fears. Trust the story arc. They’ll integrate the ending when they’re ready.

The Father Who Wrote a Courage Story

Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin was written by a father watching his own son struggle with fear. The boy was afraid of swimming, of climbing, of trying anything where he might fail. The father wanted to give him a story that honored that fear — that said it’s okay to be scared, okay to pull back, and okay to return when you’re ready.

He chose a penguin because penguins are inherently a little funny, a little awkward on land, graceful in their element. He gave her snow magic because magic makes difficult things feel possible. He gave her Kitty and Dino because nobody gets brave alone.

The result is a story that works. Children see themselves in Penny’s fear. They want her to succeed. They absorb the lesson that courage isn’t about being fearless — it’s about being scared and trying anyway, with friends nearby.

A Story That Grows With Your Child

The first time you read Penny the Penguin, your child might focus on the snow magic and the snowboarding. The fifth time, they might notice how Kitty knows what Penny needs before Penny says it. The tenth time, they might tell you that Penny was brave because she tried again even when she was scared.

That’s how stories teach. Layer by layer, reading by reading, until the lessons become part of how children understand themselves.

Bravery isn’t something you explain. It’s something you show. And sometimes, the best way to show it is through a penguin who falls down, cries frozen tears, and gets back up again.

Give Your Child a Template for Courage

Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin is a picture book for ages 3-8 that teaches children what bravery really looks like — not the absence of fear, but the decision to try again with friends nearby. Join Penny, Kitty, and Dino on a snowboarding adventure that shows young readers they can be scared and courageous at the same time.

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Why Bedtime Stories Are a Parenting Superpower (And How to Maximize Them)

There’s a reason the world’s most successful people remember their childhood bedtime stories decades later. It’s not nostalgia. It’s neuroscience.

Fifteen minutes of reading to your child before bed does more than entertain. It wires their brain for language, builds emotional security, and creates a connection that carries through the rest of their lives. Parents who read aloud regularly aren’t just filling time. They’re using one of the most powerful developmental tools available — and it costs nothing.

What Actually Happens During Bedtime Reading

When you read to a child, their brain lights up in ways screens simply cannot replicate. Research from the American Academy of Pediatrics shows that shared reading activates multiple brain regions simultaneously — language centers, visual processing, and emotional regulation systems all work together.

Here’s what that means in practical terms:

Language development accelerates. Children who are read to regularly hear 1.4 million more words by kindergarten than children who aren’t. That’s not a typo. The vocabulary gap starts early, and reading aloud is the single most effective way to close it.

Emotional security deepens. The physical closeness of reading — the child tucked against you, your voice steady and warm — triggers oxytocin release. This hormone builds attachment and reduces stress. A child who feels safe at bedtime sleeps better and faces the next day with more confidence.

Attention span grows. Stories require sustained focus. Unlike rapid-fire videos that train the brain to expect constant novelty, books teach children to follow a narrative thread from beginning to end. This skill transfers directly to classroom success.

The Hidden Benefit: Processing the Day Through Story

Children don’t process their experiences like adults do. They don’t sit down and think through what happened. They need stories to help them make sense of things.

A child who fell down at the playground might not want to talk about it directly. But when they read about Penny the Penguin crashing on her snowboarding trick, something shifts. They see Penny cry frozen tears. They see her friends stay nearby. They watch her practice small jumps, then bigger ones, until she’s ready to try again. The story gives them a framework for understanding their own experience.

This is why the right bedtime story at the right moment can do more than a conversation. Stories reach children emotionally first, intellectually second. They bypass the defenses and speak directly to what the child is feeling.

How to Make Bedtime Stories Work Harder

Not all reading sessions are equal. Here’s what research suggests makes the biggest difference:

Consistency beats duration. Ten minutes every night beats an hour on weekends. The routine matters as much as the content. A child who knows story time is coming begins to relax before the first word is read.

Let them see the cover first. Give your child a moment to anticipate. Ask what they think the story will be about. This small ritual builds engagement and primes their brain to pay attention.

Pause at emotional moments. When a character feels scared or happy, stop and ask: “How do you think Penny feels right now?” This simple question teaches emotional vocabulary and builds empathy.

Don’t rush the ending. After the story closes, give your child time to process. Some children want to talk about what happened. Others just want to lie quietly. Both responses are valid. The story is still doing its work.

Why Picture Books Work Best for Ages 3-8

Children in this age range are developing what psychologists call “narrative identity” — the ability to understand their own life as a story with a beginning, middle, and future. Picture books provide the scaffolding for this complex skill.

The combination of words and images lets children follow along even when they can’t read yet. They learn that stories have structure: setup, problem, resolution. They internalize that difficult moments are usually followed by growth. They see that characters who struggle often succeed in the end.

These patterns become the mental models children use to understand their own lives. A child who has read dozens of stories about perseverance begins to see themselves as someone who keeps trying. A child who has watched characters receive help begins to understand that asking for support is normal.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long should bedtime reading last?

Ten to twenty minutes is the sweet spot for most children ages 3-8. Long enough to settle into the story, short enough to keep it special. Consistency matters more than length — nightly reading beats occasional marathon sessions.

What if my child wants the same book every night?

This is completely normal and developmentally valuable. Repetition helps children master narrative structure, predict what comes next, and feel competent. They’ll move on to new stories when they’re ready. For now, the familiar book is doing important work.

Should I ask questions during reading or just read straight through?

Both approaches work. With younger children, reading straight through preserves the narrative flow. With older children, occasional questions build comprehension. Follow your child’s lead — if they’re engaged and asking questions themselves, pause and respond. If they’re absorbed, let them listen.

Is it okay to skip nights?

Life happens. The goal is regular connection, not perfection. If you miss a night, simply resume the next. What matters is the overall pattern — a child who knows reading together is a normal, expected part of their day.

What makes a good bedtime story for this age group?

Look for stories with clear emotional arcs, relatable characters, and satisfying resolutions. Themes of friendship, courage, and kindness resonate deeply. Books that model healthy responses to challenge — like Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin — give children templates for handling their own difficulties.

The Story That Started With a Father’s Wish

Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin was written by a dad for his own four-year-old son. He wanted a story that would help his child understand that fear is normal, that friends matter, and that trying again after failure is what courage looks like.

The book follows Penny, a snowboarding penguin who crashes hard and loses her confidence. With Kitty’s patient presence and Dino’s gentle support, she finds her way back to the Triple Loop — not because her friends fix her problem, but because they stay with her while she fixes it herself.

It’s the kind of story that works beautifully at bedtime. The snow magic feels cozy. The friendship feels warm. And the message — that you can be scared and brave at the same time — plants itself quietly in a child’s mind as they drift toward sleep.

Start Tonight

You don’t need a perfect setup. You don’t need twenty free minutes. You need a book, a child, and the willingness to be present. Everything else follows.

Bedtime stories aren’t an extra. They’re a parenting superpower hiding in plain sight. Use them well, and you’re not just putting your child to sleep. You’re building the foundation they’ll stand on for the rest of their life.

Make Tonight’s Story Count

Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin is a picture book for ages 3-8 that turns bedtime into an opportunity for connection and growth. Join three unlikely friends on a snowboarding adventure that teaches children about courage, friendship, and the magic of trying again.

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Why Kids Need Imaginary Animal Friends: The Hidden Benefits of Magical Companions

Every child needs someone in their corner — even if that someone has fur, scales, or happens to be made of imagination.

Imaginary animal friends have been part of childhood for generations. They’re not a sign of confusion or escape. They’re a healthy, important tool children use to process big feelings, practice social skills, and build the confidence they’ll need for real friendships.

Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin understands this deeply. The story gives children two magical companions who model what real friendship looks like — presence, patience, and unwavering support. Kids don’t just read about Kitty and Dino. They spend time with them. And that time matters.

What Imaginary Animal Friends Actually Do for Children

Research on imaginary companions has grown significantly over the past two decades. Studies show that children who engage with imaginary friends — whether invisible playmates, stuffed animals with personalities, or characters from stories — often develop stronger emotional regulation and narrative skills.

Here’s what imaginary animal friends provide:

A safe place to feel big emotions. Children can be scared, angry, or sad through their imaginary friends without feeling judged. The emotion gets felt and processed in a contained way.

Practice for real relationships. Negotiating with a stuffed dinosaur or comforting a worried storybook cat gives children rehearsal time for actual social situations.

A sense of control. When real life feels overwhelming, imaginary friends offer a space where the child decides what happens next.

Language development. Children often speak more freely and complexly with imaginary companions than they do in direct conversation with adults.

Why Kitty and Dino Work as Imaginary Friends

Kitty and Dino aren’t trying to be real. They’re clearly magical — a cat with wind powers, a dinosaur who grows plants. That fantasy element is exactly why they work so well.

Children know Kitty and Dino are story characters. But they also feel real enough to matter. When Kitty rides alongside Penny during practice runs, children feel that steadiness. When Dino grows soft bushes for landing, children understand that safety matters.

The magic makes the emotions safe to explore. The friendship makes the lessons stick.

Penny, the penguin who lost her confidence after a crash, finds two friends who don’t judge her fear. They don’t tell her to “get over it.” They stay with her while she finds her way back. That’s the kind of friendship children need to see — both in stories and eventually in their own lives.

The Bridge Between Imaginary and Real

Imaginary animal friends aren’t meant to replace human connection. They’re a bridge to it.

Children who spend time with storybook friends like Kitty and Dino practice:

  • Noticing when someone else is struggling
  • Offering help without taking over
  • Being patient when progress is slow
  • Celebrating someone else’s success
  • Showing up consistently, even when it’s not exciting

These are the same skills they’ll use with real friends. The imaginary ones give them a risk-free environment to practice.

Penny’s story ends with her landing the Triple Loop — not because Kitty and Dino did it for her, but because they were there while she did it herself. Children absorb that message: friends support, but you still do the work. That’s a healthy understanding of relationships.

What Parents Should Know

If your child talks about Kitty and Dino like they’re real, that’s developmentally appropriate. If they pretend to have their own magical animal friend, that’s healthy imagination at work.

Questions you might hear — and how to respond:

“Can Kitty really help me if I’m scared?”
“Kitty is a story friend who shows us how to be brave. When you’re scared, you can remember how Kitty helped Penny, and that might help you feel braver too.”

“Why does Dino grow plants?”
“Dino’s magic helps him take care of his friends. In real life, we help our friends in our own ways — maybe by listening, or sharing, or just staying nearby.”

“I wish I had a friend like Kitty.”
“You can be a friend like Kitty. Notice when someone needs help. Stay with them while they try something hard. That’s what Kitty does.”

Frequently Asked Questions

Are imaginary friends a sign of loneliness?

No. Research shows that children with imaginary friends are often socially skilled and creative. Imaginary companions are a normal part of healthy development, not a sign of isolation.

At what age do imaginary friends typically appear?

Imaginary friends often emerge between ages 3 and 8 — exactly the age range for picture books like Penny the Penguin. This is when children’s imagination and social understanding are developing rapidly.

Should parents worry if their child has an imaginary animal friend?

Generally, no. Imaginary friends support language development, emotional regulation, and social practice. Only be concerned if the imaginary world seems to replace all real interaction or causes significant distress.

How do storybook characters like Kitty and Dino help?

They give children models of healthy friendship to observe and internalize. Children learn what supportive friends do — and what they don’t do — by watching story characters navigate challenges together.

Can reading about magical friends help shy children?

Yes. Story characters provide social rehearsal in a safe context. Shy children can “practice” friendship by observing Kitty and Dino, then gradually apply those lessons to their own interactions.

The Story That Gives Children Friendship Models

Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin was written by a father for his own son — a child who needed to see what patient, steady friendship looked like. The book gives young readers two magical companions who show up, stay present, and help without taking over.

For children ages 3-8, this is exactly the kind of story that feeds healthy imagination. It gives them friends to spend time with on the page, lessons to carry into real life, and the quiet understanding that being seen and supported is what friendship is actually about.

Imaginary friends matter. They prepare children for real ones. And stories like Penny’s give them the best possible examples to learn from.

Give Your Child Friends Worth Imagining

Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin is a picture book for ages 3-8 that gives children magical companions to learn from — and through. Join Kitty, Dino, and Penny on a snowboarding adventure that teaches children about courage, practice, and the friends who make both possible.

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Teaching Empathy Through Animal Stories: How Kitty & Dino Show Kids the Power of Understanding

Children don’t learn empathy from lectures. They learn it from watching how others respond to big feelings — in real life, and in stories.

Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin is a picture book that quietly demonstrates what empathy looks like in action. When a small penguin’s snow magic spirals out of control, two friends don’t rush to fix her. They take time to understand what she actually needs. That’s the lesson: empathy starts with listening, not solving.

What Penny’s Story Teaches About Emotional Understanding

Penny is a penguin who makes snow with her magic. Usually, that’s wonderful. But after crashing during a difficult snowboarding trick, her feelings overwhelm her — and so does her snow. She can’t stop it. She’s scared, embarrassed, and doesn’t know how to ask for help.

This is where Kitty and Dino step in. They don’t arrive with answers. They arrive with presence. They sit with Penny. They notice what she’s feeling. They don’t tell her to “calm down” or “try harder.” They build a space where she feels safe enough to try again.

That’s empathy in its most useful form: understanding someone else’s experience before offering help.

Why Animal Characters Make Empathy Easier to Learn

Children aged 3-8 are still learning to name their own emotions. When a story shows a penguin crying frozen tears, the feeling becomes visible and safe to explore. Animal characters give children emotional distance — they can watch Penny struggle without feeling exposed themselves.

Research supports this. Stories with animal protagonists help young children practice perspective-taking. They learn to ask: “How would I feel if that happened to me?” — a question that builds the foundation for genuine empathy.

Penny’s story gives children a clear example:

  • Kitty notices Penny’s fear before Penny says it out loud
  • Dino realizes that fixing the snow isn’t the same as fixing the feeling
  • Both friends adjust their help based on what Penny actually needs, not what they think she should need

The Small Moments That Matter Most

Empathy isn’t dramatic. In Penny the Penguin, it shows up in small, specific actions:

Kitty rides alongside Penny — not ahead, not behind. She matches Penny’s speed. She uses her wind magic to steady Penny when she wobbles. The message is clear: I’m here. You’re not alone in this.

Dino grows soft bushes for landing — not because he doubts Penny, but because he knows trying feels safer when the fall won’t hurt. He doesn’t say “you’ll be fine.” He makes it true.

They practice together — small jumps first. Then bigger ones. Each success builds Penny’s confidence until she’s ready for the Triple Loop again.

These are the building blocks of empathy: noticing, adjusting, supporting without taking over.

What Parents Can Say After Reading

The best picture books open conversations. After reading Penny’s story, parents might ask:

  • “What do you think Penny was feeling when she couldn’t stop the snow?”
  • “Why do you think Kitty didn’t just tell Penny to stop being scared?”
  • “Has there been a time when you were afraid to try something again?”
  • “How did Kitty and Dino help without doing it for Penny?”

These questions let children practice naming emotions and recognizing helpful responses. They build the vocabulary of empathy one conversation at a time.

Frequently Asked Questions

What age is best for teaching empathy through stories?

Ages 3-8 is the critical window for empathy development. Picture books like Penny the Penguin are specifically designed for this age group, with simple narratives that model emotional understanding.

Do animal stories work better than human stories for teaching empathy?

Research suggests animal characters can make difficult emotions feel safer for young children to explore. Children can observe Penny’s fear without feeling personally exposed, then apply the lessons to their own lives.

How can parents reinforce empathy lessons from picture books?

Ask open-ended questions about characters’ feelings. Point out examples of kindness in daily life. Model empathetic responses yourself. Return to the story when your child faces similar challenges.

What makes Kitty and Dino good examples of empathy?

They don’t rush to fix Penny’s problem. They take time to understand what she’s actually feeling. They adjust their support based on her needs. They celebrate her progress without taking credit for it.

A Story That Stays With Them

The father who wrote this book was thinking of his own son — a boy who was afraid of swimming, who needed patience more than pressure. He wrote about a penguin because stories let children practice courage before they need it in real life.

When your child meets Penny, they’re not just reading about a snowboarding penguin. They’re learning what it feels like to be understood. And they’re watching what it looks like to understand someone else.

That’s how empathy grows — one story, one conversation, one small moment of connection at a time.

Bring Home a Story About Understanding

Kitty and Dino Help Penny the Penguin is a picture book for ages 3-8 that shows children what empathy looks like in action. Through Kitty’s patient presence and Dino’s gentle support, young readers learn that understanding comes before fixing — and that having someone beside you makes all the difference.

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